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gardening_kristi's avatar

Leading by admonishment doesn't really work. I hope I'm always encouraging with my content and when I give talks as a Master Gardener. I grow all sorts of everything. Gardening is a joy. Leading people through joy works really well at my talks. I grow tons of food, annual flowers for beauty, and plants that provide ecological services to our local wildlife, aka, native plants. I'm not going to apologize for growing Lavender in front of the Little Bluestem, Baptisia, Penstemon, and Garden Phlox. I'm not going to apologize about the fact that the Hummingbird Mint growing next to the Goldenrod and Big Bluestem is native to the Southwest and not my ecoregion. I love it, it's the best smelling plant in my garden, the hummingbirds and nectar robbing bees love it, and the deer don't eat it. I have Monarch Caterpillars eating my Milkweed, American Lady Caterpillars eating my Pearly Everlasting, Small Carpenter Bees nesting in the stems of my Smooth Aster, Goldfinches eating seeds, Longhorn Bees nesting in the ground, a freezer full of greens, zucchini, broccoli, cauliflower, and beans grown here as well as shelves of salsa, jam, onions, garlic, squash, teas, herbs, and spices grown here too. Perfection should never be the enemy of progress. I hope to always be encouraging, inclusive, and enthusiastic and hope that everyone else gets the "bug" too and develops a passion to want to do more. Happy gardening to everyone in 2026.

Liz Stillman's avatar

Thanks for this! We moved into a new house at the end of summer last year so I'm taking this growing season to see what's what before diving in, but *native plants only!!* has been a bit overwhelming. Of course I want to support the pollinators, but where to even begin?? And here you are, laying out the road map. Your content is always timely, particularly because I belive we're fairly close geographically and your posts keep me in line with my planting schedule. Anyway, just wanted to say once again how grateful I am for you!

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